Feeling sorry for yourself is stupid – absolutly stupid!

I think the worst thing i can face is someone telling me how sorry they are, or rather how
sorry they are for themselves – in fact – i think that such a feeling is a personal and belongs to that person that experiaces it.Firstly the thing is that itshows a self confident issues where he/she want someones else’s opinion on their situation because they either don’t trust their own for that they can’t come up with one – so actually its not a bad thing, it just a revealing thing.Two, what i really can’t stand is when this is ised for someone in a advantages position, like when they feel that pleading for themselves will somehow initialize something to their own advantage – that irritates me.So what i think im trying to do is to hammer this into myself so if, by some effect of the psche, i ever try this – i know its stupid, demoralising and self depressing.Sure say you’re sorry but don’t tell how sorry you are of youself, because of yourself – because you’re just getting accross the message that you don’t respect yourself.And this can be very bad for your image, self image aswell as image in someone else’s eyes.

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