I’ve realized that its all about deciding – then once you’ve decided, all that is left is execution.
deciding is the difficult part of everything in life – just deciding. What to eat, what to do, why, because etc…
But I’ve come to know that when it comes to deciding, it only constitutes a few things.
1) If you want something – you should do it – that sounds easy but there will be things that you’ll think about that will make you doubt that you actually want to do this thing you want. Do it. As soon as you start thinking about the doubts,think about them, sure – give them their due, but equally, start thinking about why you originally thought your original thought – it must have been something strong to have made it the first thought – now start thinking about all the things that influenced your original thought…what made you feel that your original thought was the most important? What other things lead you to feel that way? now you should be pretty certain if your original thought was the thing to do or not. Bottom line – investigate your thoughts, determine where they come from. Because its these things that you dont understand. its these things that you are without when you are trying to decide which thought is the one you want to go with. maybe its just me – maybe its only me that thinks that i should take the time to break up the simple thoughts into complex things like this – maybe its not the way, but being aware that there are constituents that make up a thought and that you may not be aware of these constituents is probably true.
Those who make their minds up quickly, know of these constituents.
So in life, this i think is the way to live :
If you want to do something – that’s your journey, live it. Decide that this is surely what you want and then go ahead and plan it and persue it – the journey is yours – people can come with you, be around with you, decide to come with you… But ultimately this is not the important thing. the important thing is to do your journey.
The people are supplementary , you are number one. it sounds selfish, but if you bring everybody into your equation – it becomes complex and you loose the ability to solve it in a simple manner. Provided you are travelling in the journey you set for yourself – you can easily start to factor other people in, and surely this is the point of being a single being – start with a simple equation and then complicate it when you know that you are traveling or have reached or are reaching that thing that you decided to do.
I think you need to walk by yourself, in the path you decide. And if someone sees what you are doing, and decides that what you are doing coincides with what they are doing or want to do – then things will meet.
These things i think are true, or by any means – they have become apparent to me today. Maybe they have become so, due to the things and experiences that I’ve been going through or have gone through? Who ultimately knows that can tell you over the telephone?
Stu
