Everything, everyone, feeling, perception, love all chooses the path of least resistance.
All things in life wheather abstract feelings and emotions to concrete things like diffusion and chemical reactions all settle down to a state that leaves them neutral and comfortable.
For instance, we should not be troubled about finding certain things in life – they will come to use and we will come to them – not fate – but by law.
Lets take into account the following : All that is nesseccary in life, things that must be or you want to be or have will eventually occur – even though you know not what that eventuality is.
This is why it is rather stupid to feel bad about things that dont come right.Thats probably because in the bigger picture – they are not ment to be – the path of least resistance takes its toll on all of us – but the result isn’t always what we plan them to be.
This is distinct from fate and destiny – although you could argue that destiny is what the result will be of ‘the path of least resistance’ though…anyway, the moral of the fucking story here is that if you encounter something, embrace it for what it is – if its good , great, embrace it for the goodness it brings and so forth and whatever , if its bad then embrance the fact that is is bad and carry on – because all these little thing that you encounter are either ‘bang’ you hit up agains the side or no you just keep going – again if you experiance issues – thats the resistance in the path, else its plain sailing from there onwards…
So when things go wrong for example – its for a good reason.
And when things go right is for a good reason .
All things finally come down and rest to a comfortable state one of least resistance and when that happens – it is then when you trully can love someone – anything before that is something that you can try , but the only thing you’ll get out of it is a better understanding of yourself – from your partner and from yourself.
True love is when bother parties have found the path of least resistance and that path is the same or if not, the fact that they have found their path is when true deductions can be made about that and other people at the same stage – and knowing that those dedections and identifications or chracter are just.
Love when you are comfortable – and when you are not embrance it, for its a sign that you have not settled down and are in some resistance .
All this is all fucking theory but it has some merit in it.