Sometimes you underestimate the power you have over things, let alone people.
Sometimes you are put into positions of power and control that you have
not asked for.It is then that you abuse the power you have been given.
Most times you disregard those that look to you as the central character in
a story, like a father or king who control and rallys everything.
I have learned that this power that someone has given you is very important.
Even though it isn’t always welcome.
When you are given the responsibility of how someone feels – it can be a burden, sure, but you need to take into consideration why such responsibility has been assigned to you.Sometimes its because you are the best for the job, and that person trusts you to protect them and act like the father figure.Now with all this reliance on you (even though you didn’t ask for it) you need to identify to yourself that responsibility is a sign of trust.Trust that you will do what you have been given to do.
So in this way, you need to tread lightly when dealing with unrequested responsibility, because one false move and you can hurt and upset the person who assigned you the responsibility – as it would seem that they we wrong – and nobody likes to be wrong.
It is the same with love, sometimes that responsibility is weighted apon you, you are given the responsbility to deal with someones feelings – whether you feel the same way or not.Thats the burden – but you have been given the power and responsibility to deal with it.Now you can deal with is wrongly and end up haveing the person loose trust in you, or you can deal with it without the person loosing trust in you.Because at the end of the day, weather the outcome is this or that, you are still left with the responsibility of upholding the trust that someone has given you.
I feel that it is this trust that is often lost when someone ubuses the task of responsibility – now if you value the person who has given you the responsibility , you need to tell them what you feel but don’t abuse your responsibility to their feelings – they have given something of themselves to you, to deal with and expect you to deal with it correctly.You can NEVER just make that responsibility disappear – it is always with you – you must just deal with it correctly so that you can express youself without damaging the person that has given you that responsibility of their feelings.
You can do anything, really but as long as you uphold the trust and responsibility that someone has given you and reasure them that they were right and not wrong with assigning you with the responsibility, then you’re okay.
I suppose it is like being a king or queen – responsibility is given to you and most of the time your disicions are worth nothing unless you uphold that which the country has given you.
Jester,lead my army, but keep them happy.