i initially started writnig this cos today i happened to loose a lot of data that seemed like it was suposed to happen becuase many things played aprt in it – it seemed like fate, coincidence or just bad luck – an unintentional result was brought on by a intentional action.The linkage through this direct and direct relation is wierd – but here i reason it…
fate, coincidence and luck, perhaps fortune are all things that we tend to regard as signs like things that are special.sometimes i feel that they are, and why shouldn’t they be, i mean no one can explain them, for example when to people meet and then they hate each other for some reason and then end up getting married like 25 years later – that kind of stuff.Yesterday somehow talks to tomorrow and they setup some kind of meeting – fate is the perceptionj that things are planned from they very beginning of time and that what you do now whether it be planned or not has no impact on what you can or can’t change or do in the future – or that what you do , was planned and it will jappen just the same as the new day dawns.Thens their is luck, where you rekon that you have a tendancy or rather you fancy yourself as being smiled apon by a mystic force much like fate where things just come right for you.But hold on a second their…doesn’t this all mean that you are not in controll of your life, i stress on ‘not’.As much as i would like to be in control of my life and i’d belive the whole luck,fate thing-maybe it true, maybe its not, but i think that if i was then what is the point of having a will and a mind functioning the way it does?why have we the capability to think and see change and make dicision just for them to mean nothing in the end – cos the end is defined – and not by us – by fate,luck or whatever.
So i don’t think that’s it – its just not right – it doesn’t fit my comfort zones of logic based on the world and worlds ways and mans ways…so its a dud to me.But what about coincidence , hah thats something that i do belive in, of all the above things based on completly random relation, coincidence is the one where their is more “chance” that the others that means that their is a whole lot more coincidences than luck and fate stuff.But how? Well, coincidence is the being in the right place at the right time, but the right time and the right place are fixed we just need to wonder into them.With luck these are not fixed.Fate too.But coincidence it walking into a right spot.You could aregue that getting to that right spot is all about luck – but i have rulled that out by my distinction between havin a mind and being able to macke disicions, so coincidence it the effect of having two incidences coinciding – if you had 100 places to look for something then you have a 1 : 99 chance of finding it – if you find it then great, but if you find it by randomly selecting a place then you have hit coincidence – not it wasn’t brought on by luck, it was just the random,spontaneous merge of two incidences that are related in someway, but i think that every day their uncountable “coincidences” happening all the time – but some are less identifialbe and regarded due to their diffirence in significance to a specific thing.For example you have an indicence where you love red cars with blue lights and you bump into another person with the same stange liking you identify it as coincidence, becuase you tie your incidence withthe other persons – but what about the coincidence that the other persons shoes where bought at the store where you got yours? or the tired you changed last week was touched by your future wife in 25 years time ? Coincidence is all around us – we just identify what we want to or what we think it is.
Everyday,minute,second every moment their are millions of coincidental things around you at any one moment or time you just need to look for them.So the statment “im looking for coincidence” while combing through a field of grass for a neddle you dropped doesn’t seem to far fetched.I think this because of how i feel regarding the fact that everything in the entire world is someway tied to each other in varying degrees of significance.You are just looking for whats already their, some sort of signifiance that matches your needs – a sparkle in the field – is not special its just a reflection of the sun and you are in the way – so “your” coincidence has been found.
I feel that to find coincidence is impossible but to experinace it is not random and not a result of a mysterious force that allows it to be.We just need to find what we are looking for, we are looking for coincidences that lead us to what we want.Buy this i mean that beacuse everything is connected to everything else, their are many coincidences that can link you with what you are looking for, perhaps they are not direct – but them maybe indirect, coincidences built on effects that “what you are looking for”‘s being.